How to Extend "Honeymoon with Employer"

Comment prolonger la lune de miel avec l'employeur

Comment faire en sorte que l'union de l'employeur et de l'employé soit solide et longue, pour que la relation ne prenne pas fin après la "lune de miel", et ce qui doit alerter immédiatement le candidat.

CleverControl a demandé à l'expert en marketing, relations publiques et stratégie de communication Larry Warren.

  • Larry, quel serait le beau début d'une relation entre l'entreprise et l'employé ?

  • In practice of successful professionals quite interesting stories "conquest" happen quite often. Firstly, let’s define "the honeymoon period"? It is actually just like that pre-purchase buzz you might get. It is the moment when the interest in some employee or employer is so high that all your further actions are aimed at the realization of the desire "to get him/her/it". But, as in human relationships, in work it is very important to have the desire balanced. An emotional impulse purchase based on someone else's successful market experience sometimes has nothing to do with the goal of the employer. And the substitution of concepts most often leads to disappointment. First, the employer needs time to define what tasks he or she will set before the future employee, which of them to define as a priority, and what he or she is willing to sacrifice. Second, the applicant must also consider what he or she "sells", "earns", and for what price. All these questions are specific enough to require serious consideration and it's important to separate emotions in making such decisions.

Drapeaux rouges

  • Dans quels cas conseillez-vous à l'employé d'être méfiant ? Quel doit être le drapeau rouge ?

  • For example, you get a call from an HR specialist and off the bat he or she starts to praise you and all of your projects. And this flattery is followed by the invitation for a meeting where everything is made just for you and even the boss meets you with a smile. The intention is clear: everyone is excited to meet you, you really have something to respect you for but where does all of this excessive "gallantry" come from. It creates suspicion. It all would be fine if it was not for this weird aftertaste of some kind of catch... And now, at home, in a comfortable chair, you start recalling rather strange inconsistencies in the manner of communication with you and the current employees, such as rudeness with the secretary or assistant, and that nasty feeling of insincerity. Or, let's imagine a completely opposite experience when the calling recruiter tells you how lucky you are to be addressed by such a company. Most often, such interview continues with a general feeling of an “exam” and questions like "Well? What do you know about us?" The feeling is often reinforced by phrases like: "Next time I want you to prepare a presentation for us." These seem to be two completely opposite examples but what do they have in common? In fact, in both cases, the company does not understand what it is looking for in a future candidate. Because "praise" or "belittling" is a transition to personal that deprives the dialogue between people of all productivity and causes completely unnecessary emotional reactions. What is dangerous about such a beginning of work relationship? The fact that your work simply will never meet the boss’s expectations because he or she doesn't know what is required.

Contraste entre la "lune de miel" et la vie professionnelle quotidienne

  • Quels sont les exemples que vous connaissez où le contraste entre la "lune de miel" et la vie professionnelle quotidienne ?

  • I just remembered a joke: Because of the serious problems the company was in the boss fired the marketing director. And he tells his successor that he have prepared three letters which the new marketing director needs to open before every meeting with the boss. After a year the company has zero results, the boss calls the new director in for a meeting. So he opens the 1st letter which says: "Blame everything on me." The successor refers to the terrible legacy he inherited from the previous employee, and he is forgiven. Another year passes. The picture is the same. Dynamics of company’s development is not improving. Another meeting is planned. The marketing director opens the 2nd letter which says: "Blame everything on the fact that the effect of modernization cannot be instantaneous and that it requires a cumulative effect and time." Again the director is forgiven. Another year later nothing has changed. The director opens the 3rd letter before the meeting and it says: "Prepare the 3 letters." This joke, as it often happens, is only 50% joke. Very often employers who don’t know what they want expect too much from an employee. The boss who doesn’t know how to set goals and tasks sees the employee as a beam of light that will bring business back from the darkness, but it is not always justified. And this kind of dissonance stops “the honeymoon” straight away.

Les erreurs et comment les éviter

  • À votre avis, quelle est la principale erreur des employeurs, puisque les employés sont si heureux au début et si découragés par la suite ?

  • Je ne rejetterais pas toute la responsabilité sur l'employeur. La sélection de l'employé et de l'employeur est un processus à double sens. Le patron doit comprendre quelle est sa tâche : il s'agit de tracer une route, de déterminer un itinéraire et de fixer des objectifs spécifiques pour des personnes correctes. Et, comme je l'ai dit précédemment, vous ne devez pas succomber aux émotions. Pendant les entretiens d'embauche, vous devez négocier les termes et reconnaître les objectifs et les motivations des deux parties, afin d'éviter tout nouveau malentendu. Et si le candidat voit une certaine incertitude dans son futur poste, il ne doit pas avoir peur d'exprimer ses craintes à son patron potentiel. N'ayez pas peur de poser des questions.

  • Que pouvez-vous recommander aux managers pour éviter les erreurs ?

  • Le conseil le plus important pour les managers est de ne pas oublier que vous êtes en charge du processus. Il est très important d'écouter et d'entendre, de tirer les leçons des erreurs, de comprendre qu'il est normal que des erreurs se produisent et de savoir déléguer. Mais le plus important est d'assumer la responsabilité du résultat.

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